I don’t believe there is anyone over the age of five that doesn’t know about the Supreme Court ruling on gay marriage. It’s a matter that has been discussed heatedly all over the world for decades.
I doubt it will come as a surprise to anyone who knows me that I do not — cannot — support this decision. Let me explain.
I’m a Christian. I belong to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. As such, I’ve made a choice. There are two options here: agree with the world or agree with God. As a God-fearing woman, the first is out of the question for me. Could I really say to God, “Hey, I’m going to ignore what You want in favor of what these people wish me to believe?” I can’t.
At the same time, we are commanded to love others. And I do. I have many loved ones and sweet acquaintances who either are gay or support gay marriage. Mind you, I have nothing against the feelings that belong to a homosexual. It’s the action with which I disagree. Just as having desire for a member of the opposite gender is fine unless it leads to lust, adultery, or premarital sex. There are rights and wrongs, opposition in all things, and certain rules that we should and should not uphold. I love those that disagree with me. They’re also children of God and deserve respect and kindness. But that love does not transcend into agreement and support of their actions, for the simple but profound reason that I love God more.
Something that frightens me about this issue is that those who oppose gay marriage are being persecuted and silenced. That’s not what America is about. I understand we all have equal rights and I don’t mind at all that those with differing opinions speak as they will. What bothers and genuinely scares me is that anyone who disagrees with gay marriage, transgender topics, or things also related to this are so heavily rebuked for exercising the same rights those who support LGBT communities enjoy. This is an opposition of ideals. Both sides believe they are right. So why are those of us who disagree with the ruling being so persecuted? We are belittled into silence, feeling shamed by the public, even the government. This is not fair. In a country that touts equality and civil rights as the basis for our every action, how can the public justify fighting tooth and nail for their wishes while simultaneously crushing ours into the ground? America was founded on the God-given rights of free speech and freedom of religion. These are part of the First Amendment of the Constitution. The Constitution is what this nation is founded upon. In shaming us into silence, they are denying us the very rights upon which the United States of America is predicated. If disallowing gay marriage is unconstitutional, then this definitely is.
I ask you to think of this objectively. Christians and others who oppose gay marriage are (or at least should be) kind and caring to those who disagree with our beliefs. Please support giving us the same courtesy.